Choosing An Egg Donor
Posted in: Fertility, Resources, Guides, Tips, 05/04/2026
Getting started, though, can feel overwhelming. We recommend intended parents first take some time to identify their priorities and top criteria. Some IPs feel a strong connection to certain physical characteristics, such as height and eye color. Others are looking for a particular ethnicity that aligns with their own background. Some place the greatest importance on education, personality, or shared values. Personal and family medical history are at the top of the priority list for others. Our donor profiles, including photos and videos, are designed to give intended parents a complete picture — not just of how a donor looks, but of who she is — so they can find a match that truly resonates with them. It’s also important for intended parents to consider their needs around future contact.
Whether they’re drawn to a de-identified arrangement, want to exchange full names and contact information with their donor, or somewhere in between, it’s critical for intended parents to clarify their preference and confirm that it aligns with their prospective donor’s desire before proceeding with a match. Ultimately, many IPs describe a moment when they simply “know” they’ve found the right donor. When intended parents combine careful consideration with that sense of connection and the support of BHED’s experienced team, they can move forward feeling confident and hopeful about what lies ahead.